Is Your Ex Playing Mind Games?

Sometimes it can seem like your ex just doesn’t know when to quit with the hurt. They break up with you, tear your heart to shreds, take up with a new lover, and yet still think they can keep you hanging on in the background ‘just in case‘ it doesn’t work out with the new guy/gal. They call, they text, they flirt, and all the time you’re sitting there thinking they...
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Dealing With Guilt After Cheating

Adultery, infidelity, cheating… call it what you will, is one of the biggest causes of relationship break ups. But sometimes, not for the reasons you might think. While it’s generally accepted that the cheated partner in a relationship is going to suffer the after effects, it’s not so easy to accept that for the cheater, there’s often a lot of pain involved also. Hard to...
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How to Get Over An Ex

Judging from the e-mails you’ve been sending in, it seems that a number of you are more interested in how to get over an ex, than in getting back together with them. I confess that what surprises me most about this is how quickly different people move from wanting to get back together with an ex to accepting that the ex isn’t the right one and wanting to move on and find the person...
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