The fear of losing your lover can sometimes be so great as to actually cause you to push them away. Subconciously, it feels better for you to know they went because you pushed rather than because they stopped loving you. But ask yourself, is that fair? On either of you? Fear is a natural emotion. In fact it’s a vital emotion. It provides the backup energy needed for times when we have to either ‘fight’ or ‘run...

The trouble with breaking up is that it leaves you in a state of mind where you just don’t ever want to risk looking for love again. A broken heart is simply not capable of loving. Period. However, you can find love again. Whether you get back with your ex lover and find that your love is stronger or you move on and find love with someone new. (Yes, it does happen) Some folks say love just happens, no need to go looking for it, and...

In a nutshell, yes. Might seem hard to believe and even more so for those who’ve been cheated and have to be convinced all over again that their partner still loves them. But it’s true. You see cheating and loving are two very separate things. And you need to keep them that way. The reasons why people are unfaithful are waaayyyy too numerous to mention. And they’re different for everybody. Some folks will cheat because they...

Do you know almost 500 women ask Google every single month, “why doesn’t he love me“? And Google comes up an astonishing number of answers. Do you think any of those results are going to answer your question? Let me tell you. They won’t. Not a one of them. And the reason is simple. Nobody can tell you why someone doesn’t love you. Not even Lovers Return can do that. We don’t know you, we don’t know your...

It may seem like a silly question, but often when relationships end and we find ourselves still agonising over a lost love, then it’s a question you need to ask. And it’s one you need to be able to answer honestly. If the person you’re in love with causes you nothing but pain and misery, whether you’re with them or not, then it’s a safe bet you’re in love with the wrong person. Of course, that’s pretty...

I had someone ask me this the other day and you know what? Broken hearts are like every other piece of your body’s anatomy, they heal just the same. Sure, there’s scar tissue, and I have no doubt that the heart takes longer to heal than the rest of your body. But it does heal. Even though sometimes we may fight it. Recovering from a broken heart isn’t something that happens in the same way as recovering from a broken bone...