Despite what you may hear from others there isn’t really a set time period where you can say, ‘if we’re not back together within this many days/weeks/months, it’s time to move on’. Every couple, every relationship, every breakup is different. Some people spend most of their time together as a couple actually broken up. I’ve known friends for whom breaking up was almost a routine. Those types of breakups...

Ok, so you have just broken up with your lover, and now you are missing them and are desperate to get back together. You may think you are the only person in the world to experience these feelings and regrets, but you are not. In fact, with a little forethought, getting back with ex lovers can be more than a possibility. So with that in mind, we’ve put together your 10 step crash course in getting your ex back. Read it, use it, and come...

When you’ve been with someone for any length of time it’s sometimes hard to recognize when the relationship is over. And even when you do, actually taking the step to end it can seem harder than just putting up with the status quo. I read an article today that got me thinking about breakups and why they’re so hard. (I’ve reprinted it below). For the most part, it comes down to a couple of things.If only one of you is...

Are you getting over a break up right now? Do you hurt so bad that you feel like your heart is going to explode? Do you want to fight for love one minute and hide in a corner the next? Don’t worry, it’s all perfectly natural when you are dealing with a break up. Just as there are stages of grief when mourning someone who has died, there are also steps that must be taken when getting over the break up of a relationship. Many...

Making a plan to get back with an ex isn’t the first thing you think about when your relationship first breaks up. And with good reason. Apart from anything else, any plan you are likely to come up with while you’re still trying to come to terms with the break up isn’t likely to be well thought out and of any use anyway. It’s likely to consist of ‘accidental’ meetings, sneakily following their every move,...